A long time playing this game and do not understand how the formation tactic, which may be the types of tactics.
Currently game a 3-5-2 with the midfield in X.

And where do you want help with?
I can help out and i am more then willing, but i am afraid i have the same problem.
Most of the times i have a better team then my opponent but in my eyes tactics count way to hard.
I have seen lesser teams with way to good result only because of their master tactics.